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THE LONELINESS GUY
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Read one, some or binge-read all of the 50+ articles written by Phil and guests to help you feel connected as a gay man.
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Phil McAuliffe
Jul 29, 20214 min read
The ultimate guide on finding your Prince Charming and living happily ever after
Waiting for your Prince Charming to save you from your loneliness? Wait no more!
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Phil McAuliffe
Jul 15, 20215 min read
2021: Your year of authentic connection - second progress check
Let's check in to see how your year of authentic connection is going.
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Phil McAuliffe
Mar 4, 20214 min read
2021 – Your year of authentic connection: first progress check
How is your year of authentic connection progressing?
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Nathan Todd
Feb 18, 20216 min read
Finding comfort in shedding the labels you wear: Nathan's story will inspire you
What labels are you letting define you?
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Reno
Feb 4, 20218 min read
The power of vulnerability: Why Reno says it's important to expose yourself to others
'I may destroy me' - Compassionate self-exposure as the path to personal freedom.
257 views
Phil McAuliffe
Jan 21, 20215 min read
How I build strong connections on a tight budget
Why does the gay lifestyle cost so much money?
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Phil McAuliffe
Jan 7, 20217 min read
2021 - Your year of authentic connection
Let’s make 2021 your year of authentic connection
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Phil McAuliffe
Dec 10, 20206 min read
The gift of loneliness: the powerful reframe that feeds connection
Is it time to open the gift of your loneliness this Christmas?
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Phil McAuliffe
Nov 26, 20208 min read
The importance of true friendship in life for gay men.
We know that friendship is important, but what makes a friendship?
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Phil McAuliffe
Nov 12, 20206 min read
Discovering the true you: unpacking the question "Who Are You?"
If putting yourself out into the world is the cure to loneliness, who are you?
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Phil McAuliffe
Oct 29, 202013 min read
The link between shame and loneliness: how I broke the cycle
Shame begets loneliness. Loneliness begets shame. Let’s turn our shame into our ally.
586 views
Phil McAuliffe
Oct 15, 20209 min read
How to speak your loneliness story
Don’t know how to speak about your loneliness?
I’ve got your back.
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Jesse Elkins
Oct 1, 20209 min read
Comparisons CAN bring joy
Comparison can be the thief of joy, but it can also bring curiosity, connection and community.
110 views
Michael DiIorio
Sep 23, 20208 min read
Connection and casual sex: pros and cons
Can we gay men use casual sex as a means of connection?
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